A little bit of life

Sometimes you say things you dont mean,You argue with the ones you truly care about & wouldnt want to even begin to imagine your life without them.You drive away the ones you cherish & adore by sometimes becoming to needy towards them.With some they become like a comfort zone to you.You perhapes rely on them too much & get used to having them there to talk to everyday.Someone to make you smile.Make you laugh.Someone you hear from &  just by talking to them it brightens up your day.There voice is comforting to hear even if they are miles away cos at that momment it seems like they couldnt be any closer to you.They can be the people that perhapes you once shared a unique closeness to but in which in time you only had it fall apart & from that momment in time everything changed the way in which things appeared.
It's from that momment that you learned that:

-Promises can be made & not always stuck too.They shouldnt be made if they arent intended to be
carried out but also just try to remember loved intentions are always the best ones even if at
the time you dont see it like that,even if they do end up broken.Those intentions came from a 
good place & were meant for the best even if they dont seem clear to us at that momment in time.
People are only human & everyone makes mistakes no one in this life is pixie-perfect.

-Learn to NEVER take anyone for granted & try to hold them close cos to lose them & set them free would mean a dramatic change in life & its ways.

-You can be hurt by someone badly more than once but never anytime does it get easier or any less painful.Its something that can seem unbearable at that time &  makes you feel as though things wont be the same between you again.But times a healer & things do get better in time even if at the time you cant even begin to see that.Time is perhapes one of the worst things & gets you sometimes in thinking that you are just wasting precious time that you cannot get back but someone who is in which worth it will be worth wasting that time on thats just something you need to decide for yourself.Who is worth your precious time & who isnt? None the less remain positive & dont lose faith in the matter cos if you lose that little bit of faith then you have nothing.

-No matter what you are going through life carries on regardless & you have to learn to stand on your own two feet because if you rely on someone else & they leave you then you have to learn the hard way so its best to learn it for yourself while you go through life after all you can only trust yourself at times & only you know what is best for you.It can be hard to stand on your own two feet if you have always had people around for you to lean on but those who havent,havent been as fortunate as some.It's hard but whatever is easy in this life today?Nothing.

-Follow things in life & observe its teachings,true meanings &  lessons after all life is one big learning curve & an adventure.No-one gets out alive in this life so why take it too seriously?

-Learn from your mistakes & dont repeat them.

-Never take people for granted.Cherish the momments & memories that you in which shared with them.

-Never see someone perfectly cos there will come a time when they will only shatter that illusion.

-People can hurt you unintentionally or on purpose everyone has there ways some just choose to follow bad ways but they will hopefully begin to learn someday after all karma is a bitch & what goes around comes around.

-Surround yourself with people who geniuely care about you.Want to help guide you.Support you.Give you a hand to hold onto when you need it the most after all if the roles were reversed 
they'd want you at there side.The ones who show no care in the world are the "untrue" ones & ones who wont make your world go around.

-Things are NEVER easy & things never stay the same.Things change all the time we just never notice it or at times choose to over-look it.

-Missing that special person can be heartaching & take its toll on you.But absense only makes the heart grow stronger.You have to pace yourself after all whatevers meant to be will find a way <3 
Never give up hope & when you believe theres not even the smallest bit of hope remaining then thats the time to learn to let go its devasting but not a impossible task.

-Be weary who you give your heart too after all some just might take disadvantage of it but to some it wont be just another toy.

-You can learn alot from the ones you love & they also help you to grow as a person.So take every chance to tell the ones that you adore,cherish & think the world of what they mean to you cos you never know when it might be too late & they are no longer in your reach.

-You can sorry repeatedly but never does this always solve things.After all you can say sorry & not mean it.It can be overused & the word can lose its meaning that little bit more everytime.You have to learn that sorry cannot always fix things that are that badly damaged its the actions that you carry out with that word sorry that also add to its effect.

-Obstacles are put in your way to see if what you want is really worth fighting for.So you have to keep on fighting for what you want after all it shows people how much you truly want someone as you are prepared to do anything & not let anyone get in the way of what you want.

-Believe in karma cos people that do bad things should suffer the consquences & deserve to learn perhapes even more than others should.

-What you give & what you put into something is what you get returned.Okay it doesn't always work out like that as you can put everything into something & not get in back in return but the majority of the time whatever you put in you will get back out of something or someone. 

-You can't appreciate real love until you've been burned.Everyone goes through heartbreak in life &  it will always be more than once in which we feel it.Its a part of life sadly & no one can run from it cos where ever you try to run to it will always find you.

-Just because someone is beautiful doesn't mean they don't do ugly things. 
If your believe you arent pretty doesn't mean people don't think you have the beauty of a flower. 
Just because people are loud doesn't mean they dont hate silences. 
Just because people are quiet doesn't mean they dont have nothing to say. 
Just because people are happy all the time doesn't mean they never cry themselves to sleep. 
Just because people are unhappy doesn't mean they can never be happy again. 
Just because people think it'll never happen, it just might...

Love Lottie xo